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Question: Why did I cheat on my ex?

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I'mmmmm BACKKKKKKK!!!! Yeah, I know it's been a while. To kick things off, For the next month I'll be answering the questions I've had emailed to me from people who have read my blog and I've picked this one to start with: "I met you when you were already married to your current husband and knowing you, I couldn't even imagine you ever cheating on him. Why did you cheat on your ex?" Interesting... I had to let this roll around in my mind for a bit. The answer I would've given when I was actively cheating is so far from the true answer that I have now. Back then, my answer would've definitely included a lot about him, what he was doing, and how I was fed up. Though those statements played their part in the decisions I made, but they were ultimately MY decisions. So let's start here: Nope. I had to grow and decide to own my stuff. I cheated because it was a choice I made. I could've made the choice to divorce my ex before I got...